Stayin' On the High Road
Don't worry about the wicked. Don't envy those who do wrong. For like
grass, they soon fade away. Like springtime flowers, they soon wither. Trust in
the Lord and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper. Take
delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart's desires. Commit
everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you. He will make
your innocence as clear as the dawn, and the justice of your cause will shine
like the noonday sun. Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently
for Him to act. Don't worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their
wicked schemes. Stop your anger! Turn from your rage! Do not envy others - - it
only leads to harm. Psalm 37:1-8
Ken Stoltzfus
Christians would deny it, but
we believe that evil is more powerful than good. Why else, when we are doing
well but people say or do nasty things against us, do we respond in like spirit?
We respond to evil with evil. True?!
Psalm 37 says that the good guys win. But it also has
qualifications and conditions which are summarized in the last phrase of v8
above. Here's what happens.
Let's say we're doing a good
job at something, but someone is jealous. Or we're a leader and some decisions
we've made threaten people with vested interests. We are on the high road. But
then someone gossips about us personally or complains about our leadership.
They have come at us on the low road. Our own destiny is in our next move!
Far too often, Christians drop
to the level of those who have come against them. We don't believe that God
will set the record straight. We don't believe righteousness and truth have a prevailing
voice. We are insecure. We feel threatened. We rush to protect our reputation or
leadership position like a mother bear her cubs, and then we can't figure out
why God doesn't correct (or better yet, slay) our accusers.
Here's why He doesn't. When we
were walking in godliness, there was something for God to defend. He wanted to help
us. To prove our innocence. But when we dropped down to the low road to meet
our accusers and engage them in battle we stepped from the place of innocence and
disqualified ourselves from His vindication! We can do it His way, or our way,
but not both ways.
Read those verses again. We
must trust God - - instead of relying on our own wits and arguments. I
discovered years ago that there are many reasons that people come against you.
The reasons they give are rarely the real reasons. Often, they don't want to know the facts. Because of
something that is going on inside of them, they have to think what they think! Logic, rationale and truth are
immaterial to them. The more you argue, the worse it gets. Meanwhile, God waits
to help!
When we worry about those who
accuse us and envy their apparent success, we become defensive and angry.
Especially if we are in leadership, those who accuse us now have reason to accuse us! The original issues almost don't matter. We
have fallen into a trap and we had part in setting it! I've been there and done
that!
We need to wait patiently for
God. Give Him time - - in spite of our sense of urgency to fix things. Let Him
do it His way. He is a God of
justice. Righteousness, truth and wisdom do
have a voice!
The humble realization that
we're rarely as right as we think we are, and we probably don't deserve as much
vindication as we think we do, should mellow us and motivate us to let God sort
things out!
I have seen it. It is true,
what David writes, "He will make your innocence as clear as the dawn, and
the justice of your cause will shine like the noonday sun." I put that to
the test not too many years back in a major conflict situation. I determined to
be "A Psalm 37 man to the end" - - at any cost. They could take my
position. They could rob me of my ability to move an organization toward a goal
we had been committed to together. They could renege on commitments. I would
accept humiliation. But I would not engage my accusers on the low road.
God helped me. I lost my
position but I won the respect of those near me who continue even today to solidify
the vision I had implemented. God has done for me all that Psalm 37 says, and
more. I wouldn't trade places with those who appeared to have "won",
for anything in the world!
Romans 12:17-21 is a powerful
text on this issue, addressing both sides of conflict. And God used Elaine to
take me to I Peter 5:6-10 some 25 years ago in the heat of the battle. Check it
out!
"Bad", doesn't have
the last word for those who trust God. "Good" does - - if we will
give it room and time to work. God wants
to fight our battles for us. He longs to get between us and the enemy, as He
did for Israel on so many occasions. But we don't let Him do it. We fight the
battle ourselves, without His help, as Israel did sometimes with such terrible
results.
However, while God is totally
committed to our welfare, He is not
committed to keeping our ego from being bruised. We look at our pride, He looks
at His eternal purposes. We look at the moment, but He looks at the big
picture. I've decided that I would rather lose the argument and win the battle,
than win the argument and lose the battle. I've done both often enough to know
the difference!
And here's the kicker. Any
time that I have acted decently when men took something from me, God has
replaced it with something better. No, make that "Far better!" Even
while I was still licking my wounds, I knew that I would rather have
"this", than "that".
Don't envy the apparent success
of those who come against you. Trust in the Lord, continue to do good, and you
will experience God's prosperity for you. Delight in Him and He will give you
the desires - - the deepest desires of your heart. Commit everything you do to
the Lord. Trust Him, and He will help you do it. And when things get tough, He
will reveal your innocence to those who matter.
And let me tell you something.
Eventually, even those who had made themselves your enemies will respect you.
Trust me. No, trust Him!!
Born in 1940, Ken
Stoltzfus has worked as a pilot, ordained Christian minister, businessman,
missionary to Africa and writer. This is #9 in his series "Snippets from
the Good Book", and is one of many short articles that can be found at www.flyinghigher.net
Bible quotations are from the New Living Translation, © 1996
by Tyndale House Publishers.
© 2003, Ken Stoltzfus, flyinghigher.net, P.O. Box 548, Apple
Creek, OH 44606 USA. May be printed for personal use and may be reproduced for
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